Ilhan Omar's former spouse resurfaces amid Trump's renewed allegations

 December 12, 2025

Ahmed Nur Said Elmi, the second husband of Rep. Ilhan Omar, has popped up on social media with a flair for the dramatic, branding himself a "dirty dandy" while living it up in Johannesburg.

Elmi, 40, who left the U.S. years ago, is now believed to be based in South Africa, where he’s been spotted at upscale venues and wearing a visitor’s badge at the University of the Witwatersrand, Fox News reported.

This online resurgence aligns with President Donald Trump's reigniting old claims that Omar married Elmi, allegedly her brother, to skirt immigration laws. These assertions remain unproven, yet they continue to cast a shadow over Omar’s public life.

Trump's Rally Remarks Stir the Pot

At a recent rally in Pennsylvania on Tuesday, Trump doubled down on his accusations with biting commentary. "She married her brother in order to get in, right?" he asked the crowd, adding a jab about the double standard if he were in a similar situation.

His words cut to a deeper frustration with what he sees as unchecked hypocrisy in political circles. If such a scandal touched anyone outside the progressive shield, the fallout would be swift and merciless, yet Omar seems to glide past scrutiny.

Trump pressed further in a Politico interview, lamenting a congresswoman who "marries her brother to get in and then becomes a congressman and does nothing but complain." The complaint, to many, feels like a distraction from addressing real issues in her district and beyond.

A Tangled Marital History Under Scrutiny

Omar’s personal timeline adds layers to the ongoing debate, starting with her religious marriage to Ahmed Abdisalan Hirsi in 2002 after becoming a U.S. citizen in 2000. Born in Somalia, her journey to Congress has been marked by both resilience and controversy.

In 2009, she entered a legal marriage with Elmi, a British citizen, while still tied to Hirsi in faith and raising children with him. This overlap raises eyebrows for those questioning the intent behind her decisions during that period.

The separation from Elmi came in 2011, though their legal divorce wasn’t finalized until 2017, a delay that fuels speculation. Omar later married Hirsi civilly, only to divorce again and wed political aide Tim Mynett in 2020.

Elmi’s Academic Path and Public Silence

While Omar navigates political storms, Elmi has carved out a quieter life focused on academia in recent years. His work at the University of Bristol as a research assistant delves into gender studies, queer theory, decolonization, and international development, per their research directory.

This scholarly pursuit stands in stark contrast to the tabloid-ready image of a "dirty dandy" enjoying South Africa’s high life. One wonders if this reinvention is a deliberate step away from the messy headlines of his past.

Neither Elmi nor Omar has responded to requests for comment on these latest developments. Their silence leaves room for public interpretation, often leaning toward skepticism when transparency is absent.

Questions Linger Over Integrity and Accountability

Trump’s allegations, though lacking hard evidence, tap into a broader unease about trust in elected officials. When personal histories are murky, it erodes confidence in whether leaders prioritize constituents over personal gain or loopholes.

Omar has consistently denied the claims of marrying her brother for immigration fraud, yet the persistence of these stories keeps her under a microscope. For many Americans tired of political games, the focus should shift to policy results rather than endless personal drama.

Still, the saga of Elmi’s reappearance and Trump’s pointed critiques remind us that optics matter in public service. Until clearer answers emerge, this narrative will likely simmer, a nagging thorn in the side of a system already strained by distrust.

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